As a godly man you ought speak words of hope and prophecy over your woman. Adam named his wife “Eve” right after the fall. “Then the man—Adam—named his wife Eve, because she would be the mother of all who live.”( Genesis 3:20)
Adam named his wife Eve to embody her destiny rightly after she had given in to the evil one. Adam chose not to see her in the light of her error, he chose to see her in accordance with God’s plan for her.
Choose to see the good in your spouse, speak greatness, favour, and grace over your partner. Speak to him or her in line with the future that God has prepared for him or her.